Americans: How You Respond to President-Elect Reveals Your Character

A valuable reminder for Non-American Citizens, too

US President, Did your choice win or lose? How you respond reveals something about your character.Perhaps the man or woman you voted for for US President did not win. Perhaps he did.

I believe it’s fitting today to remind you, with love and respect how much your true character shows when you win or lose something.

Are you being gracious? 

Think about it.

Wins and losses are your opportunity to reflect the very best of your personal values. 

What values are you projecting right now?

“Career Success: The Best Kept Secret That Will Fast Track Your Career”

Here's how women can get promoted faster

 

How to get promoted? Here's how you can get promoted

“It’s not what you know. It’s not who you know. It’s who knows you.”

~ A Wise Person

“Sponsorship is about the fast track. It’s about who gets promoted.”

~ Sylvia Ann Hewlett
Author of “(Forget a Mentor) Find a Sponsor The New Way to Fast-Track Your Career”

 

As a leadership trainer and consultant, I’m often asked how to develop the next generation of leaders.

Bottom Line Up Front

People companies want to promote need more than mentors. They need sponsors and a transparent, simple path for getting them.

The Surprising Reason Women Aren’t Promoted More Often

Hard work isn't enough to get promoted. You need a sponsor! ~ @CrystalMJonas #career Click To Tweet

Women tend to believe that hard work alone is enough to get promoted. Think about that for a moment. If hard work alone were enough to elevate women through the ranks, the Fortune 500 would have more than 4.2% of CEOs as women.

And you’d have had more women bosses.

The “Hidden Brain Drain Task Force” determined the role and impact of sponsorship and why more women don’t make better use of it.

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What People Like About You: 5 Qualities You Probably Have Already

Develop these habits that build relationships

Bet you’re better at building relationships than you give yourself credit for.

The key is to recognize in yourself the behaviors that people find naturally attractive and to be willing to build these likable qualities, and bring them out more often.

How many of these qualities do you have, and which could you cultivate even more?

1. You (wisely) mirror and match. To the extent that it makes sense, you mirror the other person’s body language and match her vocal quality.

This is important for two reasons. Reason #1: We like people we perceive to be like us, and when you mirror and match others, they feel you’re a kindred spirit.

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Revealing This 1 Thing Builds Trust in Relationships

Want to be more approachable at work? Try being more vulnerable

Leaders, to build trust in relationships at work and to be more influential, be more open.You’re probably really good at your job. But, do you come across as too perfect?

You know how important your personal relationships are. And of course, your work relationships are important, too.

Since I deliver lots of seminars and keynotes on communication and leadership, I’m often asked how to be more approachable at work. Savvy leaders know to influence people, they must feel comfortable with you.

Bottom line: Meaningful relationships start with trust. When you feel you cannot trust someone, game over. No chance you’re going to listen to them or connect with them, much less let them influence you.

I’m surprised sometimes how often I hear something from clients that I believe represents a huge obstacle in their having the kinds of trusting relationships that lead to their ability to naturally bond and to ethically influence others.
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Do You Have the Presence of a Leader? 5 Ways to Tell

Do You Show Confidence and Credibility?

5 Qualities of Leadership with Presence

 

You don’t need a title to be a leader. If you have the qualities that inspire others to go for self-improvement, professional and personal development, to be who they are at their best, you have the essence of leadership.

Great leaders have presence, and as you cultivate aspects of leadership, you’ll want to include the qualities of presence.

 

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Leadership Image; Persuade and Influence with 5 Ways to Show Presence

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3 Easy Steps to Add More Happiness to Your Relationships

Self Improvement Based on Emotional Intelligence

 

Personal Development, Emotional Intelligence in Your Relationships, Self Improvement TipsWhether at your business, or in your personal time, the quality of your relationships influence the quality of your life.

Here are three quick tips for personal development drawn from emotional intelligence that will enhance your connections with others and add more happiness to all of your relationships.

 

  1. Give a genuine “Hey, it’s you!” smile when you see someone. Easy to get deep into concentration at work and have, what looks like a scowl cross your face when someone approaches your workspace.

While fake “I’m always smiling really big, even when I’m alone,” looks aren’t necessary, you can have your body language radiate warmth just by thinking “Hey, it’s you!”

Think of the look you might have if you went out to lunch and saw a friend unexpectedly at the café. That’s the look!

Just a note: You’re not always going to be able to take the time to listen each time someone wants to talk to you. What to do so you’re not seen as an aloof grouch? (more…)